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Without a vision, we have nothing.
If you really take the time to think about it, almost everything we do in our lives starts with a vision, a thought, an idea.
The same is true when designing a home.
Before the Pinterest boards, paint colors, flooring selections, or deciding your design style, you need to understand what you’re actually working toward.
Because without having a vision first, it’s very hard to move forward with any home design project, and it’s often why so many homeowners get stuck.
People often want to jump right into drawing up a floor plan, selecting finishes and materials, choosing furniture, or shopping for all the pretty things. And I totally get it. Those parts of the process are fun and are the parts that make you actually feel like you’re designing your home.
But that’s not where a design starts. It actually starts with a vision.
So before we do anything else, let’s talk about what a vision for your home actually is, why I believe it’s the most important place to start, and how having one can make every decision that comes after it so much easier.
What Is a Vision For Your Home?
A vision is much more than being able to picture the final product. It’s not just about selecting paint colors, flooring, countertops, furniture, or finishes.
Vision starts at the very beginning.
Vision is direction, not certainty. It’s the larger picture of your home and what you want to create.
It’s not:
“I want white oak cabinets, with marble countertops, and brass accents throughout.”
It’s:
How do I want to live?
How do I want my home to feel?
What matters to me?
What does my home need to support?
What do I want more of here?
What isn’t working now?
What am I drawn to aesthetically?
What kind of experience am I trying to create?
All of these things are part of your vision.
Once you begin figuring these things out, the visual elements can come together. And they will come together much more easily because they have something behind them.
Your vision doesn’t have to be perfect before you move forward.
You don’t need every room planned.
You don’t need to know your exact design style.
You don’t need every material chosen.
You don’t need to know what your house will look like when you’re done.
At this point in your Home Journey, you’re simply establishing:
This is what matters to me.
This is how I want to live.
This is how I want home to feel.
This is roughly where I’m headed.
That’s all you need in the beginning to move forward intentionally.
And just a reminder, your vision isn’t something you’re signing a contract with yourself that you can never change. A vision is meant to evolve with you as you learn more about yourself, as your project develops, and as your life changes.
The goal isn’t to lock yourself into the perfect answer and only follow that throughout the whole process.
The actual goal is to give yourself enough clarity and confidence to move forward.
Think of this stage as almost a “self-discovery” exercise. This is all about discovering who you are, what you want, and what you actually need from your home.
Because good design begins with the life you’re living and wanting to live, not the room.
And that’s why I wholeheartedly believe that having a vision is so critical to having a successful home project.
Why Your Home Design Vision Should Come First
Your vision comes first because how are you supposed to move forward when you have no clue where to even begin or know where you’re trying to go?
Any home project, big or small, involves SO much decision-making.
Every small decision you make leads into a big decision, and one decision is always affecting another. Many of the decisions we make for our home projects can be extremely expensive, difficult, or even permanent to change. Making every decision we make that much more important.
The more we’re able to understand ourselves and what we’re working toward from the very beginning, the easier it becomes to navigate through everything that comes our way.
1. Your Vision Gives You Direction
So many homeowners often think they need to start by finding all the inspiration on Pinterest.
Or they start shopping and buying things that they like without any real meaning or purpose behind them.
Homeowners are going in blindly and doing all the things they think they’re supposed to be doing, only to get frustrated and overwhelmed.
And that’s exactly why your vision needs to come first.
Your vision gives you somewhere to go.
Instead of starting every single decision from scratch, you have a larger direction you’re working toward.
And when you’re surrounded by thousands of flooring options, paint colors, furniture pieces, layouts, lighting fixtures, tiles, countertops, trends, opinions, and inspiration images, having that direction absolutely matters.
You’re no longer asking yourself:
“What do I like out of everything that exists?”
You’re asking:
“What makes sense for the home and life I’m trying to create?”
And that’s a much easier question to answer.
2. Your Vision Makes Design Decisions Easier
Believe it or not, your vision makes every single design decision easier because it becomes the filter for any decision you make.
Once you have that vision, you will be able to use that as your guiding light and always come back to it.
Having a vision doesn’t necessarily make every decision easy, but it gives every decision something to answer to.
Which in the long run, makes you feel much more confident in your choices and alleviates all of the second-guessing.
So when you’re presented with questions like:
“Which flooring option is best for this space?”
“Should we renovate the formal dining room into something else?”
“Do we actually need this feature?”
“Does this piece of furniture make sense here?”
You’ll be able to confidently and honestly answer them because you have something to come back to, which is:
“Does this support my vision?”
If it does, then great.
If it doesn’t, then that might be your answer.
Instead of asking your mom, sister, best friend, neighbor, contractor, and everyone else what they would do, you can start trusting yourself because you understand what you are trying to create. Not everyone else.
3. Your Vision Can Save You Time and Money
Any home project, big or small, can be so costly.
You’re making so many decisions as you go from the very beginning all the way to the very end. And every one of those decisions requires some combination of your time, money, or both.
The more confident and prepared you can be in your decisions, the better.
That extra work in the beginning of defining your vision might not feel like you’re making much progress on your home, but I would argue it’s some of the most critical work you can do.
Changing your mind can be expensive.
Ordering something twice is expensive.
Paying return shipping or restocking fees is expensive.
Changing cabinetry after it’s been ordered is expensive.
Moving electrical because you didn’t think through the layout is expensive.
Buying furniture only to realize it doesn’t work in the room is expensive.
And even when a mistake doesn’t cost you money, it can cost you a LOT of time.
Home projects are already time-consuming, even when you have help.
So the clearer you can be about what you want and the more you can confidently make decisions, the easier it is for you and everyone else involved in your project.
The goal isn’t to predict every single thing that could go wrong. That’s impossible to do or know what might happen.
The goal is to prepare yourself well enough so that you’re not constantly reinventing the entire design every time something goes wrong or another decision comes up.
What Happens When You Design Without a Clear Vision?
Without a clear vision, it’s really easy to start making decisions individually instead of thinking about how they all work together.
Maybe you:
Buy things individually because you like them, but they don’t work together.
Keep changing your mind.
Ask everyone else what they think because you don’t trust your own decisions.
Get completely overwhelmed by all of the options.
Chase trends because you don’t really know what you like yet.
Buy one thing and then have to design everything else around it.
Make an expensive decision way too early.
Or end up with a home full of individually pretty things that somehow doesn’t feel cohesive, or doesn’t feel like you.
And how frustrating is that?
The consequences can end up being bigger than the pretty things.
You could get all the way to the end of a project and realize that the flow doesn’t work for the way you actually live.
Maybe the cabinets are too narrow.
There isn’t enough walking space.
You don’t have room for the furniture you need.
The furniture layout feels awkward.
You don’t have enough lighting.
You don’t have the storage you actually need.
There are SO many decisions within a home that affect how it ultimately functions.
This is why so many homeowners become overwhelmed.
It’s not because they’re incapable of making good design decisions. It’s because many people simply don’t realize how important this first step is, so they skip it. Not because they want to, but because they don’t understand that interior design is so much deeper than the pretty things.
Inspiration Isn’t the Same as Vision
Pinterest can absolutely help you discover and express your vision later. But 200 beautiful rooms aren’t automatically a vision.
That’s partly why people can have giant Pinterest boards and still feel completely lost.
They’re collecting answers before they’ve really asked themselves the real important questions.
And that’s such an important distinction.
I’m not saying you should never look at Pinterest or start collecting things that inspire you. Inspiration is an important part of the design process, and we’ll get to that later in the Dream chapter.
But you don’t need to begin trying to find all of your answers in someone else’s finished homes. That’s just not where you should start.
Because once you’ve established your own vision, you’ll be able to look at inspiration differently.
You’ll have more focus.
You’ll have a better idea of what you’re actually looking for.
And instead of simply thinking, “That’s pretty,” you’ll eventually be able to start understanding why you’re drawn to something and whether it actually supports the home you’re trying to create.
Inspiration is a tool that can help you express your vision. It’s not a replacement for having one.
Good Interior Design Starts With How You Live
We spend SO much time in our homes throughout the years, which means our homes should support the lives happening inside them.
Our homes are where we make memories with our loved ones. Where our pets live. Where we cook meals, sleep, work, entertain, and relax.
Our homes see the real us and witness an enormous percentage of our lives.
They see us in some of our most raw and vulnerable moments.
Home is kind of the place we get to hide from it all and hide from the outside world. It’s where we can let ourselves loose, relax at the end of the day, truly be ourselves, and hopefully make us feel a sense of peace and comfort.
It’s where you go after a terrible day.
Where you celebrate good news.
Where you grieve.
Where relationships happen.
Where you get sick.
Where you rest.
Where ordinary Tuesday nights happen.
Where pets grow old.
Where children might grow up.
Where people gather.
Where you are allowed to stop performing for the outside world and just simply be.
That’s why I don’t believe designing a home is some superficial thing.
Yes, I LOVE the pretty things. I’m an interior designer. Of course I do!
But the pretty things matter because of the life that’s happening around them. Not because of themselves.
A beautiful sofa is great.
But what matters even more is whether it’s comfortable enough for your family to pile onto it for movie night.
A gorgeous kitchen is great.
But what matters is whether it supports the way you cook, move, gather, and live every single day.
A perfectly styled living room can be beautiful.
But if you’re afraid to actually sit in it and use it, what’s the point?
Good interior design isn’t superficial. It starts with how you live because your home is ultimately there to support your life and everything happening around you. Not the other way around.
Your Dream Home Should Look Different Than Everyone Else’s
What I love most about interior design is how personal and unique it is to everyone.
Interior design is an art form, and art is subjective.
You might love something SO much, and your best friend thinks it’s the most hideous thing in the world.
And that’s okay.
It’s your home, not theirs.
Your vision shouldn’t be determined by what your best friend would choose, what your neighbor has, what’s currently trending, or what you’re seeing all over Instagram.
It should reflect you and only you.
And when I say “dream home,” I don’t mean a different, bigger, more expensive, or perfect home.
I mean your dream home can and should be the home you’re already living in.
Maybe you’re renting.
Maybe you’re in a starter home.
Maybe you’re renovating your forever home.
Maybe you’re building.
Maybe you’re working on one bedroom.
Maybe you’re making a few small changes to a home you’ve lived in for 20 years.
Maybe you have $500 for updates. Or maybe $500,000.
The process still begins with the same question:
What am I trying to create here?
Not:
What should my dream home look like?
But:
What does my version of a home look and feel like?
That’s what we’re trying to uncover. Because not one person’s vision should look the same as someone else’s. And I wholeheartedly believe our homes should feel like home, no matter what stage we’re in in our lives.
You Don’t Need to Have Everything Figured Out Yet
Remember, this is only the beginning.
Defining your vision gives you direction and clarity. Not all the answers.
You don’t need to have the exact floor plan you’re using.
You don’t need furniture selected.
You don’t need the perfect dream team assembled.
You don’t need every material figured out.
You don’t need to know exactly what the finished home will look like.
We’re going to get there.
Right now, think of this as a fun exercise to learn more about yourself, your hopes and dreams, how you want to function in your home, and what you actually want your home to give back to you.
As a reminder, your vision can and most likely will grow with you.
You might learn something during the design process that changes part of it. Your circumstances might change, or your priorities might shift. Years from now, your life may look completely different.
And that’s okay.
Your vision isn’t about controlling every detail of the future.
It’s about understanding yourself well enough right now to know which direction to move.
This Is Where Your Home Journey Begins
This is where we Dream.
At this stage of your Home Journey, we aren’t designing, building, demoing, or shopping yet.
We’re slowing down long enough to understand what we’re actually moving toward.
Because interior design isn’t a collection of isolated decisions.
A home is made up of hundreds, sometimes thousands, of individual decisions. But those decisions shouldn’t be made individually.
Your vision is what begins connecting them into one larger story.
A homeowner might see:
flooring decisions
paint decisions
sofa decisions
lighting decisions
A designer sees how those decisions relate to one another.
And vision is the first thing that connects them.
That’s why we’re starting here.
Your vision helps you understand where you’re going and why.
Your plan will eventually help you figure out how you’re going to get there.
But before we can plan anything, select anything, or design anything, we need to start with you.
Because before we can understand what you want from your home, we first have to understand the person living inside it.
Next in the Dream Chapter: Know Yourself →
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